Tag: Art Therapy

Gratitude Bowl-Making Workshop

“For it is not joy that makes us grateful; it is gratitude that makes us joyful.” -Brother David Steindl-Rast

Gratitude Bowls

Gratitude is more that just a thought or a feeling. It is a consistent practice of recognizing moments, people, and things that you are thankful for. This past weekend, I led a Gratitude Bowl-making workshop to a group of 39 creative individuals at The Namaste Center, in Flat Rock. I am so proud of the bowls everybody made, and hope that this process strengthens their gratitude practices. Today, I am grateful for this life and this work of spreading the message that art can be used for wellness and healing.

 

“Much of what makes humans anxious or depressed originates from the way we think about the things happening around us. We tend to assume that our thoughts are always true, which affects the way we feel, and therefore the way we behave. Soon, we’re trapped in a negativity cycle, spiraling towards deeper and deeper anxiety and sadness. Practicing gratitude is not about denying reality, or only thinking happy thoughts, as most critics claim. It’s a way to create some space between our automatic thoughts and our feelings. It helps us pause long enough to notice how we have been thinking about our lives, and it provides an opportunity to get out of our heads and take a slightly different perspective.”

 

For more behind the meaning behind the bowl and instructions on making your own, check out my feature in this month’s WNC Woman Magazine.

 

Kara Ashley-Gilmore believes in the use of art for wellness and healing. She is a licensed counselor, art therapist, and mixed-media artist at Mountain Creative Arts Counseling in Hendersonville. She provides individual counseling and facilitates a weekly anxiety support group for individuals who feel crushed by the weight of their worries, dread their next panic attack, and live with over-active inner critics. Learn more about her work at
www.mountaincreativearts.com.

Anxiety is a Trickster

Adventures in String Art

Anxiety trickster

Other than a fantastic lunch with a new friend, yesterday was a mostly crappy day filled with many things not panning out the way they were supposed to, feeling like I’ve been spinning my wheels and accomplishing nothing, and a lingering cough that–despite a trip to the doctor and multiple natural and very unnatural medications–seems to only be intensifying.

I signed up to take a string art workshop in the afternoon, and it felt like the universe was conspiring against me getting there. Old me would have taken the multiple missed/wrong turns (traffic circles are the worst!), emergency stop for gas, and sloooowww moving interstate traffic as a sign that I shouldn’t go, that there​ was a reason all of this was happening, it’s completely unacceptable and unprofessional to show up late, and I should retreat back to the safety of home because, obviously, SOMETHING bad would happen if I continued on this path.

Anxiety is a Trickster

Anxiety is the greatest trickster and will make you believe that everything is out to destroy you. Years of practice with talking back to this inner catastrophizer and wannabe psychic helped me get to the place where I could use tools to calm my mind and my shaky hands, and get my head out of the scenes of destruction that were playing on repeat in my head, and back in 4:15pm on Friday, March 24th.

The truth is, had I taken the time to check in with myself before I left, I would have noticed the building anxiety, done something about it, gotten gas earlier in the day, and I probably wouldn’t have made so many wrong turns along the way. Anxiety breeds behaviors that cause more anxiety. It’s a cycle, that only the person caught in it can stop, and it begins with pausing long enough to notice how you’re​ feeling.

…Anyways, I made it to the workshop. I was late. No one cared. And if they did, they were gracious enough not to say anything. I made this string art for my son. He loved it, and it’s safe to assume Yoki likes it too.

Happy Creative Arts Therapies Week!

March 12-18 is National Creative Arts Therapies Week–a week to celebrate and learn more about art, dance, music, drama, and poetry therapies.

 In honor of this event, I’m sharing 7 interesting facts about art therapy.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #1


Art Therapy Fun Fact #2

Art Therapy is appropriate for all ages! At Mountain Creative Arts Counseling, I work with adolescents, adults, and seniors individually and in groups.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #3

I keep a wide variety of paints, pastels, drawing materials, various types and sizes of blank paper and canvas, clays, collage and scrapbook papers, wire, magazines, boxes, and more on hand for your use.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #4

 My studio art training included classes in oil painting, printmaking, graphic design, book-making and book arts, interior design, basic drawing, figure drawing, 3D design, and pottery. I choose to further my knowledge by continuing to take art classes​ and workshops, and experimenting in my home studio on a regular basis.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #5

In my workshops and groups, I often include music, writing, poetry, and a few very basic yoga techniques specifically for self-regulation and grounding purposes.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #6

Free association is one of my favorite techniques for helping clients process their artwork. Sometimes, I combine this with writing for an even deeper experience.


 Art Therapy Fun Fact #7

I have coloring books available in my office, and I occasionally use one at home, but there’s nothing like creating art from your own imagination. Also, neither is a substitute for therapy, which happens within a relationship.


To learn more about Art Therapy, visit the following resources.

The American Art Therapy Association

The Art Therapy Blog

The Art Therapy Alliance

International Expressive Arts Therapy Association

Art Therapy Credentials Board


Kara Ashley-Gilmore is a Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, Art Therapist, and mixed-media artist at Mountain Creative Arts Counseling. She provides counseling to adolescents and adults who feel crushed by the weight of their anxieties, and want to live more present lives. She often incorporates the creative process into therapy sessions with clients, helping them access their creativity, and use it for their own growth and healing.


Self-Care is Soul Care

What is Self-care?

Self-care at Mountain Creative Arts Counseling

Self-care is setting boundaries with your time and in your relationships. Self-care is giving your body the water, sleep, vitamins, nutrients, and exercise it needs to be healthy. Self-care is fostering a deep connection with at least one other person on this planet. Self-care is exploring your creativity, expanding your perspective, and learning and trying new things.

It’s asking for what you need. It’s being grateful for what you have.

Finally, it’s making the time to do these things.

Happy New Year and Winter Preview

I’ve been on a bit of a hiatus. As I’ve spent the last two years building this business, there hasn’t been much time to really slow down and relax. Even on vacations and days off, I would find myself browsing the internet for articles to share with you on my Facebook page, or planning workshops, or coming up with activities to do with the seniors at Spring Arbor.

During the week before Christmas, up until the week after New Year, I gave myself a true break where I rarely touched my phone or computer. I did the minimum amount needed to keep things in flow and gave my mind a break from all the planning and hustling that I had grown used to. And you know what happened after this period of hibernation and rest?

Vision. Clarity. Focus. Connection to Family. Acceptance. Joy.

I found myself ready to tackle projects that I had been avoiding, like the living room remodel that has now entered it’s third year of stagnation, birthing different groups that have been on the back burner, taking a hard look at this business’s finances, and clearing out all the clutter that was distracting me from having the white space in my life that I needed to maintain the gains in rest and rejuvenation that I had achieved (like, turning off most of my phone notifications, unsubscribing from all the various email lists, and tossing out clutter).

So, that’s where I am. I’ve made a few changes to the workshop offerings and getting rid of things that just weren’t working or were not providing the energy for growth. My goal is to offer opportunities for you to develop your creativity and to remove as many obstacles as possible. This means providing a rich environment  where you are free to explore and play with every supply available for your use. As a result, the times, length, and prices or workshops are no longer static–and in some cases, the price has increased–but they are still affordable, and you will still receive the same value and “Art Spa” experience that you have grown accustomed to.

Oh! I really wanted to share this with you. It’s a blog post by Kelly Rae Roberts, a social worker turned professional artist, and one of my favorite humans. In this blog post, she writes about coming back to our own brilliance and protecting our time to allow space for our intuition to come forth. Oddly enough, I only read this last week, but what a dear reminder that I’m on the right path.

I’ve posted a flyer with all the groups and workshops above. You can find detailed descriptions on my website, and can register via the new MCAC store (no more PayPal!). Would you be so kind as to help spread the word?

With love, gratitude and appreciation for your support,
Kara

Happy New Year

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

Neil Gaiman said it best:
“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes.

Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world.

You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re doing something.”

***

I don’t do resolutions, but I do choose a theme for the year. If you’re looking for a new tradition to guide you through the next year, read more about this practice here.

Anxiety Support: Anxiety vs. Fear

Anxiety Support Group: Anxiety vs. Fear Twist Card

The creation of “twist cards” illustrating the differences between anxiety and fear helped us integrate the lesson

The anxiety support group is heading into its third week. During this past week’s group, we discussed the differences between anxiety and fear. Anxiety is future oriented (relating to things that could possibly happen in the future), requires lots of thinking, and can last indefinitely. Fear, however, is present moment oriented, doesn’t require much thought, and lasts for short duration. Both these emotions are important and normal parts of the human experience. They motivate us to take action and help keep us safe and out of harm’s way. Anxiety helps us take steps to plan for our futures. Fear heightens our senses so we can be more aware of our surroundings, and helps us fight or run away when we perceive danger. Fear helps us take quick action.

How has your anxiety served you in the past? How has it protected you?

How has it held you back?

When anxiety or fear occur when there is no risk of harm, or when they occur too frequently, too intensely, or for too long of a duration, it can interfere with our lives. The struggle to avoid or suppress our anxiety also contributes to our distress. If we can learn to view anxiety as a normal human experience, it can evolve from a life-restricting problem into a tool for growth.

I am excited to continue facilitating these groups to offer the tools to support you in accomplishing this goal.  If you are interested in joining us, visit www.mountaincreativearts.com/groups for details.

Self-Care: When did it Become Okay to Neglect You?

We take care of the ones we love. Hendersonville Art Therapist, Kara Ashley-Gilmore, asks you to choose between Self-Care and Neglect.

 

Close you eyes.

Imagine the face of someone who you love with all of your heart.

Like, really love.

Someone you think the world of.

 

If you imagined a child, and that child was sick, would you take her to the doctor?

Would you offer her fruits and vegetables and healthy food to eat?

Would you limit her exposure to violence on TV?

Would you encourage her to play outside, in the fresh air?

Would you make sure she went to bed in time to get a full 7-8 hours of sleep each night?

 

If you imagined your best friend or relative…

Would you support him unconditionally?

Would you forgive his mistakes?

Would you speak to him with kindness when he was feeling down?

 

Now, imagine if that person you really loved was YOU.

What would you offer yourself?

Today, you have a choice:

Self-Care or Neglect

When did it become okay to neglect you?

 

Art Journaling for Insight

 

Smith & Sons

This won’t be your typical art journaling class. This is for the seekers. The ones who are on a journey of listening to their gut, trusting their intuition, and honoring the path that is unfolding before them.

You will be guided in using writing, painting, and collage to find the answers to questions pressing on your heart. Come prepared to make a beautiful mess and leave with a greater knowing of your truth.


Saturday, August 20th
9am-1pm
$40
All supplies included. No art experience required.